F.R.I.E.N.D.S...
hmm... I think it may be time to start reconsidering who my friends are and stuff... well, not reconsider who they are... just, like, try and find out what they are wanting from me, if you get what I mean...
I mean... some of my friends, I really don't understand them... sometimes, I wish I could get inside certain people's heads... to see what they see, when they look at me (hehe, Stacie Orrico lyrics)...
I spose it's just that I've started to drift away from a couple of them... one in particular, I have drifted so far from, but everytime I see them, it's like we drifted right back together again so quickly, just to drift far appart again... I don't know if I am making sense...
yeh, I'm just ranting on now, about things I don't even understand myself, so I can't really explain them... I guess I was hoping I could get what I wanted out as I typed...
...what a boring and pointless post this was!... I appologise...
I mean... some of my friends, I really don't understand them... sometimes, I wish I could get inside certain people's heads... to see what they see, when they look at me (hehe, Stacie Orrico lyrics)...
I spose it's just that I've started to drift away from a couple of them... one in particular, I have drifted so far from, but everytime I see them, it's like we drifted right back together again so quickly, just to drift far appart again... I don't know if I am making sense...
yeh, I'm just ranting on now, about things I don't even understand myself, so I can't really explain them... I guess I was hoping I could get what I wanted out as I typed...
...what a boring and pointless post this was!... I appologise...
posted by Cheezus69 at 11:39 pm
I got 2 comments!
Martin, I am extremely old and therefore incredibly wise. I have found that true friends come in 3 varieties:
1. The friends you have for ever and keep in regular contact with despite the tyranny of distance. You know everything that is going on with them and vice versa. Sometimes they drive you mad, sometimes you think you can't live without their friendship. I like friends like that.
2. The friends who previously you had the relationship described in number one but contact has dropped with. But, then when you do have contact once in a while, you pick up exactly where things were left and it feels like you have never been apart. I have a lot of experience with that and I love my friends of that type.
3. Friends who you form an intense bond with for a short while and for reasons never see again. Perhaps you worked with someone every day for a year and had no choice but to find out about their life and they yours. It's a bit cheesey but these are your "friends for a season". you may never see them again or have contact with them ever again but you think fondly of them. I have lots of friends like that too.
So, the way I see it is don't worry about who you're drifting from right now, you will find common ground again at some time in the future. True friends always do.
thank you all for your advice... :-)
I always make things out much worse than they are... it's the way I am... it isn't really that bad... just my one friend, well, my best friend, who I hardly ever see... well, I have like lil periods where I miss his company kind of thing, n then I start thinking that cos I haven't seen him for ages, he doesn't like me anymore... where he probably does, cause we still text each like most days...
it's like silverb says: "The other thing is of course we all lead busy lives and unless you are around someone a lot it's natural to drift apart because you both experince different things, if it is a "good" relationship then you drift back together quickly."
and ms.mac: "The friends who previously you had the relationship described in number one but contact has dropped with. But, then when you do have contact once in a while, you pick up exactly where things were left and it feels like you have never been apart. I have a lot of experience with that and I love my friends of that type."
...well... I think anyways...
thanks... :-)
I am going to post about my weird dream last night now, hehe...
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